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Self-care during Anxious Times Part I of 2

juliequinn • Jun 24, 2020

Liza Woodrome is sharing with us how to practice self-care during anxious times. Liza has personally suffered from anxiety and has found many ways to cope.

Do you know that you do not have to have any stressors in your life to experience anxiety?

You could be predisposed or genetically wired to have anxiety just for simply being you.  However, there are so many obvious reasons you may feel anxious.  A few biggies are going through a divorce, struggling with custody or co-parenting and, of course, most glaringly obvious today, Covid-19.  Today’s world can be a very difficult place in which to exist.  Every human being on earth must feel this way at some point in their life, right?

 

“If love is universal, no one can be left out.” — Deepak Chopra

 

Do you know how important it is to take good care of yourself during stressful times?   It is called “self-care” and everyone should practice it, especially during anxious times.  By definition, self-care is “the practice of taking an active role in protecting one’s own well-being and happiness, in particular during periods of stress” (Oxford Languages).  Take a break. Pause from life. Find 5 minutes a day to healthily decompress, unwind, regroup and recharge.

Each of us has a certain threshold of energy and we can only handle so much based on what that threshold is.  If your energy well runs dry, your body will thirst for more energy.  Self-care can do just that: aerate, hydrate, invigorate, fuel, and restore your energy levels to nourish, sustain, renew and quite literally breathe new life into your body.  Doesn’t that sound rejuvenating?

 

“Everything amazing about the universe is inside of you, and the two are inseparable.”

— Carl Sagan

 

Here are some ideas for anxiety management and self-care practices during anxious times.  Whether it’s something that is happening personally to you or is as wide-reaching as a worldwide pandemic, these tips will come in handy in making you feel better and learning to cope more easily and effectively.

 

Self-Care Techniques for Anxiety

Most importantly —Build your team of health professionals!  Your primary care physician, counselor and pharmacist can all work together as “Team You” in putting together the right treatment plan for you.  Treatments your team may recommend and self-care techniques include some of the following:

  • Counseling
  • Exercise
  • Clean Eating
  • Rest & sleep
  • Medications
  • Meditation
  • Deep breathing
  • Prayer
  • Yoga
  • Silence
  • Acupressure/Acupuncture
  • Herbs and holistic medicines
  • Education
  • Avoiding triggering substances, such as alcohol and smoking

 

Do What You Enjoy for Self-Care in Anxious Times

Other self-care enjoyments can be extremely beneficial. You might try:

  • Reading
  • Getting a pedicure or massage
  • Coloring/drawing
  • Listening to relaxing music
  • Journaling
  • Going on a nature walk or hike
  • Drinking chamomile or Sleepy Time tea
  • Watching a movie
  • Stretching
  • Decluttering
  • Cooking/baking
  • Calling someone you love
  • Using essential oils

Find something you enjoy doing and take 5-30 minutes a day to do it!  It’s fun to remember your 10-year-old self and what he or she would find to do in that amount of time to self-soothe.  Intriguing and motivating?  Let’s hope so… give it a whirl!

 

“Your mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer.”

—   William S. Burroughs

 

Remember —Anxiety did not happen to you overnight and it may take some time to undo itself.  Recognize and verbalize how you are feeling. Then practice patience and acceptance.  Educate yourself.  Accept help and support from loved ones.  Avoid isolation.  And fundamentally imperative: Be kind to yourself and give yourself grace during this time in your life!

 

“Grace is the voice that calls us to change and then gives us the power to pull it off.”

– Max Lucado

 

Online Resources:

  1. The 9 Best Online Therapy Programs of 2020
  2.   The Best Anxiety Apps of 2019
  3. My favorite app is Breethe!
  4. SAMHSA’s National Helpline , 1-800-662-HELP (4357) is a confidential, free information service for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders

Older posts you might enjoy related to this topic are here and here.

Stay tuned for Part 2:  How to Support a Loved One Struggling with Anxiety (and/or depression)!

Disclaimer: Liza is not a trained medical professional and is not offering medical advice.  This blog is based on her lifelong and personal experience with anxiety.

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